Friday, January 22, 2016
Disappearing Languages, Who Will Bell The Cat?
It is by no means a simple task to bring up children who are fluent in English as well as the language of your forefathers like Igbo, Hausa and Yoruba. A lot of excuses have been tendered as reasons why children should not be bothered with a degenerate language that can only be spoken at home as in the case of those living abroad. Contrary to the popular opinion that a second language will hamper speech development. Research has shown that the brain of those who speak more
than one language generally process information faster and function better in other tasks. It is therefore no wonder that many Nigerians who are fluent in their local languages often go abroad and can afford to compete effectively with the local residents of any country in which they reside.
In my opinion, parents should make it a matter of principle to teach their children their local languages to the best of their ability. Let it be that you tried and failed, not that you did not try at all. I have a grouse with some Nigerian parents who have refused to teach and speak their local language to their children. The most disheartening aspect of this situation is that the children of some parents living in Nigeria cannot speak and understand their local language. I wish to humbly ask why is this so? For those living outside Nigeria, I often ask them why their children cannot speak the local language and the answer I usually get is that speaking more than one language to a child will confuse the child. I am asking, is there any scientific proof or study to back this claim?
Parents, children are very adaptable especially early in life. If you can speak to them in more than one language they will understand. If you believe speaking more than one language can confuse your child yet you speak and write in many languages, are you implying that you are more intelligent than your child?
If we fail to teach our children these languages, eventually the language and the culture of the people will be lost with all the richness. For those Nigerians residing abroad you will observe that people from other countries like China, Italy, India etc, tend to always speak their language in addition to other languages like English. Why is it different for us? Do we detest being identified, are we just lazy, or do we feel it is not important?
Some parents would bear me witness that their adult children at some point in their life have blamed parents for not teaching them their local language. This especially happens when these children go back to Nigeria and in their villages where very little English is spoken. They find it hard to adapt and most times they are often teased by the other children because they are unable to speak and understand their local language.
I encourage everyone to try his or her best so we can preserve our unique languages and cultures.
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Wonderful Post, Children should not be limited because of our way of thinking, the brain of the child from 0-7 is like sponge, thus they are more than capable of learning and speaking several languages.
ReplyDeleteWe welcome you and thank you for your comment.
DeleteI totally agree with you nice post..
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteYou made so much sense. Just some few days ago, we were deliberating on this exact topic and we dwelt on it for hours and i gathered that sometimes the reason for this is complex, not knowing the consequences of what they're going and in all, i want to tag it rejection issues. Discover yourselves parents and give your kids that treasure.
ReplyDeleteWelcome Nneoma and thanks for raising the point on complex.
DeleteHonestly this is so sad even as of yesterday some one still told me to stop speaking Igbo to my kids That they may be confused,this is what I hear every time. thank you for this piece
ReplyDeleteWelcome and thank you for sharing this experience with us.
DeleteI think it makes so much sense but how many people are actually making the effort I guess I'm equally guilty...
ReplyDeleteIs never too late to start.
DeleteWhen your kids go to school, they're taught in English. When at the party with other children they communicate in English.
ReplyDeleteDear wonderful parents, in this day and age when grandparents are still very busy with work and probably live away from us, we're the only hope for our children to learn a second language, especially our local language.
If only parents could understand how much Black Americans admire and envy Africans for having a native, maybe we would appreciate our identity more.
Personally I need my Igbo cos it really helps me out in public when I need to caution my child without necessarily making it a public matter, lol
Welcome Laura! I can totally relate with what you are saying. I equally do the same.
DeleteWelcome Laura! I can totally relate with what you are saying. I equally do the same.
DeleteSometimes children do not seem to be interested in learning a less popular language but I will encourage parents to persist in speaking that language to the them. As they get older and more comfortable with their cultural identity, they will appreciate the language and may even thank you for that gift!
ReplyDeleteThough Igbo is not yet considered an endangered language by UNESCO we still have to commit ourselves to preserving it. The impact of the loss of a language to the world's cultural diversity is akin to the impact of the loss of a wildlife on our biodiversity. Let us make every effort to hand over a wholesome world to future generations.
It is appalling to see parents right there in Nigeria that do not encourage their children to learn any of the major Nigerian languages. Sad.
Most parents in 'Nigeria' will be like 'achorom k ina asulu nwatakilia igbo' and the reason could be either I don't want my kids to be different or I don't want them to look local that's ridiculous and isn't that 'comparison'?. Igbo culture is diminishing day by day because we don't nurture it for it to grow. NB teaching our kids our native language is what we owe them.
ReplyDeleteI am amazed that such an issue is still being raised and with such brilliant emphasis on its importance. it has become a cliche to the New generation in Nigeria to teach their children their mother tongue but this piece is a very wonderful reminder that we should not derail from the trail our forefathers have laid.well done my dear
ReplyDeleteThank you mummy yoke!
DeleteThis post has raised an important issue among Nigerians living abroad. I spent Christmas with a lovely Nigerian family in Belgium just a few weeks ago. Belgium has two national languages, French and Dutch. The two young boys speak French, Dutch, English and Igbo. Those boys didn't seem confused to me, in fact they are highly intelligent. So I have seen proof that a child speaking multiple languages does not confuse them. Parents do give it a try.
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